Man or Jerk

Man being a man, acting manly, being sporty, having many girls and having a deep voice. Standard of being a man is there such thing? When you failed some of those standards then you cannot be called as man? Damn those who say such thing. Being a man is not how manly you act walk or talk, how sporty you can be or how deep your voice is its on how you handled things with pride, having the willingness to show who you really are and having the courage to fight for what is right for me that’s being a man. And with regards to what they say that having many girls makes you a real man for me it just make you a big jerk a very big jerk! Some are even being bullied because they are effeminate wherein they are those having or showing characteristics regarded as typical of a woman because some narrow minded people thinks that when a guy is effeminate they are already gays or whatever they are called. But mind you people gays are guys who wanted guys in life and effeminate people are those who are girly in nature who knows that their behaviors are just caused by genes or whatever and not because they also want guys as their partner in life. There are even some manly and act arrogantly and boasting that they are really man but when they had their girlfriend pregnant they will just evaporate and avoid their responsibility my question now is does that make you a real man or a real jerk? 

I don’t hate gays in particular but I love them because sometimes they are more manly than we straight are because some there are some instance that they can stand like giving their seat to the elderly or to the ladies who needed seats on buses or trains while some straight guys don’t mind if there are elderly or ladies that in need of seats on buses or trains. This is just purely based on my opinions and based on my observation it will just depend on you if you will accept it because it’s true and you do these things or reject it because you don’t belong to those narrow-discreditable minded people.